How fast a boy can grow!!
So I've been swept away by motherhood and there is no looking back! It is truly the greatest thing anyone can experience! There are so many sides to it that make it so wonderful! I thought I knew what love was, but seeing this little man that is part Kevin and part me, whom God blessed us with leaves an unbelievable feeling! NOW I KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!
So Oliver turned two weeks old on Tuesday September 20th and is growing so fast! I keep telling him he can slow down, but I do believe that he is in a hurry to come home!! He is now over 4 pounds - as of Sunday! He is actually 4 pounds 5 ounces as of his Wednesday night weighing. They also do his measurements every Sunday night and this past Sunday he had grown 3/4 of an inch up to 17 3/4" and his head is 12cm. This is what it was when he was born, but he had a large bruise on the back of his head so there was some swelling and that had gone down so his head actually had shrunk in the first week, but in his second week it grew back up to 12cm. Our son is ever so amazing and god has blessed him with an inordinate amount of strength!!
Our little man has achieved so many milestones since I last updated. Let's see.... Well he has started feeding a little out of a bottle! The first time her tried I didn't think he would do anything beyond holding the bottle in his mouth, but boy did he surprise us, yet again! It was pretty amazing as both sets of grandparents were there to share in mine and Kevin's joy of this big success! We were also blessed with one of our favorite nurses, whom pulled the curtain and let us have more than the 2 allowable guests, so that we could all witness this moment in time! Oliver knew he was on stage too! He was wide awake and his precious eyes were searching the room, gazing at both mommy and daddy and even grandma Pam and grandma Ruthie! He'd suck away fro a little bit and then get this BIG grin and smile at us, just hamming it up for everyone! Out of 10cc's he took 5, which was 5 more than I thought he would do!! So the next day He tried again in the morning and they put 20cc's in his bottle and he took 12!! WOW!! Again I was blown away! Over the past four days he has continued to try the bottle and has had some more success and some days where is uninterested! But we are on the right track - just last night he took 30 of his 42cc feeding. :) He has also started to breastfeed a little and what an amazing connection that is, what a bond we now share!! Again, he hadn't shown interest in this activity yet and I was shocked that he latched on for over 15 minutes or so!! He really is growing up so fast for as little as he is.
Let's see.... Saturday daddy got to hold his son for the first time and he is so sweet with him! Words cannot describe the love for my husband watching him father our son!! He is beyond amazing and Oliver and him are going to have endless stories and memories together as father and son. Mom had to leave them alone as I was starting to make Kevin nervous about how he was holding Oliver, he was doing just fine and I should have just kept my mouth shut. I'll learn. :)
He has several dirty diapers and even peed on one of the nurses, which was quite comical and he even smirked. He's got his father's sense of humor I can see. I never thought one could be so excited over a poopy diaper, but boy have I been on several different occasions.
Last week they took out his PICC line and he no longer has an IV, he actually only has his NG (feeding) tube and the monitor attachments. He is also no longer under the photolights or using the biliblanket. I better buy him some Nike's as he is obviously going to be walking out of the NICU. :)
Last Wednesday and Thursday were probably his two worst days thus far as he was having some episodes of apnea and dropping his heart rate - but they have him on caffeine and it seems to have stopped those completely. He has two more doses of that, one today and one tomorrow, and then the doctor is going to see how he does without it. So we are praying that he has outgrown his A's and B's.
Right now digestion is still his most pressing concern. He has been spitting up a lot and not consistently absorbing all of his feedings. He had become quite uncomfortable with the spitting up and so they had tried several different courses of action to try and relieve this and it seems they may have finally found something. He has been on tow previous medications that really didn't help but for a day, they have changed his formula - which they have been mixing with my milk as I am not making as much as he is needing at this point. That really didn't make a difference so they have decided to try a 3rd medication, which over the pat 3 days has alleviated his spitting - knock on wood!! So he is resting much more comfortably at this point and has been over the past 3 days. We are hoping and praying that when they wean him off of all his medications it has given Oliver's systems enough time to mature more and enough to handle where he is at. Everything that he is going through is common for a baby his age - he is only 34 weeks and 1 day and would still have 6 more weeks in the womb, which is when so much growing and maturing takes place, so he is doing awesome by all accounts.
Since he seems to be holding steady I am probably going to head back to work to save some days for when we get to bring uor son Oliver home! I can't say his name enough or "our son." I know it is going to be hard not to be down there as much as I have but I'll go down for the weekends and a couple of evenings a week and he is in great hands of nurses and doctors so I feel better about not being there as much as I want to be! I'm sure I've forgotten something but I'll remember it next tiem!
Lord,
Thank you for all the blessings you have brought into our lives and the moments you have given to us! Without the strength of your love and your hands holding us this journey would be close to the impossible. You are an amazing savior and if anyones's faith has ever wavered it would be times like these where it reaffirms all that you are and all that you give to us!! Thank you for Oliver and the opportunity to be his parents and raise a one of your children, there is no greater gift than the gift of life!!
Amen
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Monday, September 19, 2011
Oliver Wayne - Day 6
My how time flies while watching Oliver grow - Oliver day 6
We are coming upon a huge milestone in little Oliver's life, ONE WEEK OLD. It's hard to believe he's been fighting for 6 days already and that we have had him this long. He continues to amaze us and just keeps taking his baby steps forward!! He is quite the little man and has two more than proud parents to call him SON!!
Since he's been here Oliver is resting quite well in the NICU. After 3 days he was breathing on his own and continues the mastery of this skill. It is still something he is working on and seems to improve day by day. He's had the hiccups several times and it is so hard to watch him have those. It is good for his little lungs and diaphragm to work through the hiccups and build to be stronger and stronger. His little heart is just working and working. Everything is well on that front at this point as well. Structurally sound and working correctly. They will continue to monitor as he grows. His little digestive system is making strides as we surf the net. He is receiving more and more food every day and seems to show continued improvement on his ability to digest it. This, right now, seems to be his hurdle. He doesn't always finish everything they give him, but he's improving. He is working on his sucking as he is learning via a pacifier. It's pretty amazing to watch this feat as he seems so little for this. But in order to move off the stomach feedings he has to be able to suck, swallow and breathe.
As would be expected with a baby 8 weeks and 1 day early he is trying to work through some jaundice. He is receiving light from the bili light and also a bili blanket. He's so cute in his little shades to protect his sweet little eyes. He seems to be quite content soaking up the light. At times he just stretches out like he were laying on a Michigan beach. He must just be preparing for next summer's family vacation. :) The nurses will monitor his biliruben daily and adjust his light based on his numbers.
Mom and Dad have both changed two diapers each. He doesn't put up to much of a fight when its time, but he doesn't always like being moved around. This is probably because he is resting so well! He has had a few "greasy" diapers, which is a very good thing! So we will pray he continues his digestion. He hasn't peed on anyone yet, you just have to keep an eye on where that thing is pointed while trying to change him.
Since being born Oliver has gained 1 ounce, which is wonderful. Last night was a big night as they removed the umbilical catheter out of his umbilical cord and inserted a PICC line (central line). This is in a larger vein and will continue to provide nourishment of nutrients and medicine that may irritate smaller veins. There was risk of infection and clotting if the umbilical line was in too long. This also means that in a day or two he will move from his open bed to a more cozy and quiet isolette. This will enable him to get better rest and grow! Which is what we all want. I think that these are all of the major events and changes in Oliver's life right now and we continue to ask for prayers as each day is truly a blessing and big deal to us and Oliver!
The nursing staff and doctors in the NICU are doing a wonderful job. We can call anytime to get an update and being that Kirksville is so far it is very comforting. They answer all our questions and most of them try to explain as much to us as possible. They all seem to love Oliver and are sweet to him. We feel confident in them and there seem to be taking things at Oliver's pace, BABY STEPS!! We like that they don't seem to rush multiple procedures or events into a short amount of time. Too much stress is his worst enemy right now.
The past three days I have been able to hold Oliver and there has never been anything more sweet and cherished (besides my wedding and holding him for the VERY first time) by me. The first time was just in my arms, but he was looking at me the entire time. He just made my heart melt. Oliver has the most precious eyes and sweetest look on his little face! I was able to hold him for about 30 minutes while he received his feeding. My mom was there to take pictures and he looked at her as he soaked up the love. I will never forget this day! Friday September 16th, 2011. Then on Saturday again in the afternoon. This time was kangaroo care, which is skin on skin and very beneficial for baby and soothing for mom!! They rested Oliver on his belly on my chest under a few blankets. Dad was there for this event!! He was snapping pictures and making sure Oliver wasn't resting too much on his little nose. His numbers on the monitor were nearly perfect for the entire time I held him! I could have held him the rest of his life!! Then again yesterday at lunch time I was able to get a little more kangaroo care time with Oliver. It's such a wonderful feeling to hold this little life that God gave us! I feel so blessed and thankful to have Oliver and to have Kevin to walk this path hand in hand with! He's such a great daddy and love his SON so much! He is a truly a proud papa! I hope the next time we are there he gets to hold him.
Kevin's grandparents, aunt and cousin came for a visit on Saturday. His grandma and grandpa met their first great grandchild and were so proud!! It was nice they were able to come meet Oliver and I know he was happy to entertain!! Thursday and Sunday some of our close friends came in for visits and were able to see and meet Oliver. Yesterday we went out to lunch with one couple and it was nice to visit with them, as I haven't really had that chance in 3 weeks. We've had a few more visitors and many messages and phone calls asking about Oliver and thank you all very very much, from the bottoms of our hearts. It's a blessing to have so many people care so much, I don't really think I can put into words how much each and every one of you mean to our FAMILY!
Kevin and I both came home last night and had dinner with some friends. We enjoyed our visit and some advice in parenthood! We are both so excited to be parents and are looking forward to the journey. Hard doesn't even begin to describe what it was to leave the hospital and come home without Oliver, but I know we left him in the best hands. I called down twice to get reports and they were both very good. I was able to sleep better in my own bed, in our house. I'm going to head back down later this afternoon to be with Oliver and stay in the Ronald McDonald House (which is where we stay when we go now that we aren't in the hospital). RMH is a wonderful option and we are so thankful for it, so donate!! It's a great cause. It's not much but exactly what we need when we are there. I will then stay most of the day tomorrow and depending on Kevin's schedule if he goes down on Wednesday then I will come home tomorrow and go down with him Wednesday. I think that my parents will be coming back for the weekend so I anticipate being there all weekend with our little man Oliver.
Again, thank you for all the words spoken, card sent, prayers answered lifted up. Please continue lifting Oliver and us up in your prayers, we still have a long road ahead of us with ups and downs along the way. But he peak we reach let's us rejoice in the path that God has set forth for us!!
Since he's been here Oliver is resting quite well in the NICU. After 3 days he was breathing on his own and continues the mastery of this skill. It is still something he is working on and seems to improve day by day. He's had the hiccups several times and it is so hard to watch him have those. It is good for his little lungs and diaphragm to work through the hiccups and build to be stronger and stronger. His little heart is just working and working. Everything is well on that front at this point as well. Structurally sound and working correctly. They will continue to monitor as he grows. His little digestive system is making strides as we surf the net. He is receiving more and more food every day and seems to show continued improvement on his ability to digest it. This, right now, seems to be his hurdle. He doesn't always finish everything they give him, but he's improving. He is working on his sucking as he is learning via a pacifier. It's pretty amazing to watch this feat as he seems so little for this. But in order to move off the stomach feedings he has to be able to suck, swallow and breathe.
As would be expected with a baby 8 weeks and 1 day early he is trying to work through some jaundice. He is receiving light from the bili light and also a bili blanket. He's so cute in his little shades to protect his sweet little eyes. He seems to be quite content soaking up the light. At times he just stretches out like he were laying on a Michigan beach. He must just be preparing for next summer's family vacation. :) The nurses will monitor his biliruben daily and adjust his light based on his numbers.
Mom and Dad have both changed two diapers each. He doesn't put up to much of a fight when its time, but he doesn't always like being moved around. This is probably because he is resting so well! He has had a few "greasy" diapers, which is a very good thing! So we will pray he continues his digestion. He hasn't peed on anyone yet, you just have to keep an eye on where that thing is pointed while trying to change him.
Since being born Oliver has gained 1 ounce, which is wonderful. Last night was a big night as they removed the umbilical catheter out of his umbilical cord and inserted a PICC line (central line). This is in a larger vein and will continue to provide nourishment of nutrients and medicine that may irritate smaller veins. There was risk of infection and clotting if the umbilical line was in too long. This also means that in a day or two he will move from his open bed to a more cozy and quiet isolette. This will enable him to get better rest and grow! Which is what we all want. I think that these are all of the major events and changes in Oliver's life right now and we continue to ask for prayers as each day is truly a blessing and big deal to us and Oliver!
The nursing staff and doctors in the NICU are doing a wonderful job. We can call anytime to get an update and being that Kirksville is so far it is very comforting. They answer all our questions and most of them try to explain as much to us as possible. They all seem to love Oliver and are sweet to him. We feel confident in them and there seem to be taking things at Oliver's pace, BABY STEPS!! We like that they don't seem to rush multiple procedures or events into a short amount of time. Too much stress is his worst enemy right now.
The past three days I have been able to hold Oliver and there has never been anything more sweet and cherished (besides my wedding and holding him for the VERY first time) by me. The first time was just in my arms, but he was looking at me the entire time. He just made my heart melt. Oliver has the most precious eyes and sweetest look on his little face! I was able to hold him for about 30 minutes while he received his feeding. My mom was there to take pictures and he looked at her as he soaked up the love. I will never forget this day! Friday September 16th, 2011. Then on Saturday again in the afternoon. This time was kangaroo care, which is skin on skin and very beneficial for baby and soothing for mom!! They rested Oliver on his belly on my chest under a few blankets. Dad was there for this event!! He was snapping pictures and making sure Oliver wasn't resting too much on his little nose. His numbers on the monitor were nearly perfect for the entire time I held him! I could have held him the rest of his life!! Then again yesterday at lunch time I was able to get a little more kangaroo care time with Oliver. It's such a wonderful feeling to hold this little life that God gave us! I feel so blessed and thankful to have Oliver and to have Kevin to walk this path hand in hand with! He's such a great daddy and love his SON so much! He is a truly a proud papa! I hope the next time we are there he gets to hold him.
Kevin's grandparents, aunt and cousin came for a visit on Saturday. His grandma and grandpa met their first great grandchild and were so proud!! It was nice they were able to come meet Oliver and I know he was happy to entertain!! Thursday and Sunday some of our close friends came in for visits and were able to see and meet Oliver. Yesterday we went out to lunch with one couple and it was nice to visit with them, as I haven't really had that chance in 3 weeks. We've had a few more visitors and many messages and phone calls asking about Oliver and thank you all very very much, from the bottoms of our hearts. It's a blessing to have so many people care so much, I don't really think I can put into words how much each and every one of you mean to our FAMILY!
Kevin and I both came home last night and had dinner with some friends. We enjoyed our visit and some advice in parenthood! We are both so excited to be parents and are looking forward to the journey. Hard doesn't even begin to describe what it was to leave the hospital and come home without Oliver, but I know we left him in the best hands. I called down twice to get reports and they were both very good. I was able to sleep better in my own bed, in our house. I'm going to head back down later this afternoon to be with Oliver and stay in the Ronald McDonald House (which is where we stay when we go now that we aren't in the hospital). RMH is a wonderful option and we are so thankful for it, so donate!! It's a great cause. It's not much but exactly what we need when we are there. I will then stay most of the day tomorrow and depending on Kevin's schedule if he goes down on Wednesday then I will come home tomorrow and go down with him Wednesday. I think that my parents will be coming back for the weekend so I anticipate being there all weekend with our little man Oliver.
Again, thank you for all the words spoken, card sent, prayers answered lifted up. Please continue lifting Oliver and us up in your prayers, we still have a long road ahead of us with ups and downs along the way. But he peak we reach let's us rejoice in the path that God has set forth for us!!
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Oliver Wayne Powell
Well here he is - OUR LITTLE MAN- 3# 12 oz. 17 inches, and a full head of dark hair!
Proud parents and their new son! |
Mom and Son - He wants his mommy!! |
I'm here!! |
Oliver Wayne Powell |
Look at those long arms and long torso!! What a wing span! |
The Powell Family!! |
Admiring our new son Oliver |
He's perfect! |
Oliver letting everyone know he's here!! |
Oliver's Story - Day 17
HE'S HERE!! Sorry I didn't post yesterday, but our little man Oliver decided to make his debut into the world yesterday afternoon at 1:35PM. SO needless to say there was a lot going on yesterday and the computer never made it out of the bag. Here's the timeline - roughly and Oliver's Story
Like always the nurse comes in at 6AM to perform my non-stress test, my night nurse was a little blonde - whom seems to be the only name I don't have written down. The test went fine, BP was fine and no contractions. I got up about 7 before breakfast came and used the restroom and when I stood up had a big "gush" of fluid (just what you all want to know). Later I would tell Kevin had I been home I would have considered that my water break. I called the nurse back down and let her know what had happened and that it was more than normal fluid and she said to keep them posted.
7:40ish I started feeling contractions - I KNEW these were contractions as the were intermittent and slowly intensifying. So I called my nurse down, the day nurses had come on so I had Tina and her Mizzou nursing student Tracey. They hooked me back up to the monitor to eye the contractions and said Dr Theis would be done soon to evaluate. From my calculations the contractions seemed to be about 6 minutes apart and after about 30 minutes they were becoming more intense.
9AM - Dr Theis came in to see what was going on, which were her words when she came in "What's going on here?" As every other visit she made had been uneventful and I was doing just fine. She reported on yesterday's ultrasound and said everything looked great, but now I was definitely contracting and they were going to do what they could to slow and eventually stop them. So she order a shot of Terbutaline followed in two hours by a oral medication called Procardia. After about 5 minutes the nurse came back in with the shot and injected into my right hip. It took about 10 minutes for it to kick in and relax the contractions. So now it was just wait and see...
9:45AM I wasn't going to call Kevin because I really thought anything was going to happen and that the medication was going to do the trick. Quickly I realized that I needed his comforting words as I was getting more and more anxious and scared about the situation. I called the school and had them call him down to the office to tell him what was happening. I didn't think he needed to come. After about 5 minutes of me letting him know the assistant principal sent him on his way as they had found a sub and he needed to be with me. I had a sense of relief come over me and was hopeful for his arrival. Next I called my mom at work. They called her down to the office and I let her know what was going on as well. I told her that I thought things were going slow down and we decided we'd be in touch. So Kevin was on his way and I felt better having talk to him and my mom.
10:50AM And there back. the contractions were slowly coming back and this time with a new intensity! So I called my nurse down letting her know that they were back and also seemed to be speeding up. I tried to make it, but it was getting quite uncomfortable to say the least! She got down to the room and it seemed as if the contractions were nearing 3 minutes apart. She had me Preoardia which was supposed to also relax smooth muscle - uterus and hopefully shut labor activity down. As soon as she gave me the pill I began having a contraction and sat up to try and take the pill. As I was sitting up I began to feel nauseous and then new I was going to be sick. The nurse was scurrying to find something for me and just grabbed the trash can next to the bed. And there was breakfast a second time. ;) I never got the pill down. At this time they called Dr back down and she ran through a list of things she wanted them to do. 1. Another shot of Terbutaline, 2. Pain meds, 3. Get me on an IV, 4. get me upstairs to Labor and Delivery so that she could perform an exam. WHAT?? Labor and delivery, looks like we're having a baby!!
So as the nurses are performing all their task, it was pretty amazing how several nurses came in and were all working to get things done. Tracey, the student nurse and another student nurse began packing up my belongings, which basically had become a small apartment of stuff!! I told them to call for a UHaul!
11:40AM I made it upstairs and the second shot was kicking in. As we entered so did Kevin. WHEW!! What a relief he made it and I felt like I could breathe again. They got me into a gown and switched me into a labor bed and OH MAN this is really happening. Shortly after Dr Theis came in and checked me and I was dilated to a 7, ALREADY! So she said we are having a baby either today or tomorrow. And here we thought we were going another 2 weeks! I guess baby has other plans. She outlined our approach and decided that we weren't going to do anything more to try and stop labor, we're going to ride it out!
Noon And they are back gain. My contractions started up again and I don't think that there is anything we can do now! The nurse thinks that Dr checking me probably instigated them. after about the third one I started feeling pressure with the next one. At this time, Liz - my labor nurse, decided she better check me. 9! What I had dilated 2cm in a matter of 10-15 minutes. Wow this little one wants out! And the army was mobilized!
With in minutes Liz was getting Dr back in the room and another nurse Tammy came in to help get me and the room ready! Then the NICU team was in and set and here we go. As the contractions were coming they started having me push. Push.... What I don't know what I'm doing. Fortunately I had the best nursing staff coaching me through. after about 5-6 pushes or so Dr checked our time and my dilation and said we 've got enough time for an epidural do you want one? UH YEA!! So the called the anestesiologist up and within minutes he was in and they sent the NICU team out. The Dr thought we had 30-45 minutes before baby was coming. So I signed the consent and he began preppring. They sat me up and moved me to the edge of the bed. Liz held me as I curled over the baby and let the anestesiologist do his thing. He got the local in and was starting the epidural. He said if you start having a contraction let me know and I'll pull back. A couple of minutes later here was a contraction and it had some fury. I let him know and out came the epidural. I looked to Liz and said I think I need to push, then to Dr Theis "I have to push!" "Can I lay down, is the needle out?" So they laid me back down, scooted me to the end, got me all "set-up" and it was definitely go time. My pushing was not very good and between contractions Liz and Tammy and Dr all coached me up on what to do. So as the next one came I was better but not good enough. They gave me a few more pointers and the next one I nailed it! I felt some pressure, deep breath, push, hold, count to 10, baby is coming! Deep breath, push hold count to 10, one more and it's out. Deep breath, hold, push count to ten, and HE'S HERE! "You have a beautiful baby boy!" Dr Theis. He came out screaming, which is the best sound new parents can hear! Kevin cut the cord and in my arms they placed him!!! THERE IS NO FEELING LIKE THAT!!
Then we handed him over to the NICU team and they began their work. He was breathing, but shallow so the put a tube down his throat to help him take some deeper breaths! He looked pretty good. After they had done everything they needed to they wrapped him up and put him back into my arms and let Kevin and I check him out and tell him how lucky we are and how loved he was! After a couple minutes we handed him back off so they could get him downstairs to the NICU and weigh him and measure him and get the process started. Kevin went with them and I could breath again as our little boy Oliver Wayne Powell was doing well and I was ok.
The nurses were absolutely amazing and I am so thankful for being where we are. To Dr Theis who did so wonderfully as things moved so quickly! To the NICU team who is working their magic with our little man now. He is doing great and we will keep everyone posted with his progress. Looks like I'm being discharged tomorrow and he will probably be here another 4-5 weeks, we'll just see how he does. Right now he is amazing and SOOO cute!
Please keep us all in your thoughts in prayers as we do have a long road ahead of us. The good thing is he comes from a long line of fighters - he's got many angels above watching over him who were all fighters in their time on earth. He's also had a very good start in the NICU and we hope and pray that this continues. We know there will be tough days ahead and it's going to be hard not taking him with us, but we know he is in great, knowledgeable hands!!
To be Continued.....
Like always the nurse comes in at 6AM to perform my non-stress test, my night nurse was a little blonde - whom seems to be the only name I don't have written down. The test went fine, BP was fine and no contractions. I got up about 7 before breakfast came and used the restroom and when I stood up had a big "gush" of fluid (just what you all want to know). Later I would tell Kevin had I been home I would have considered that my water break. I called the nurse back down and let her know what had happened and that it was more than normal fluid and she said to keep them posted.
7:40ish I started feeling contractions - I KNEW these were contractions as the were intermittent and slowly intensifying. So I called my nurse down, the day nurses had come on so I had Tina and her Mizzou nursing student Tracey. They hooked me back up to the monitor to eye the contractions and said Dr Theis would be done soon to evaluate. From my calculations the contractions seemed to be about 6 minutes apart and after about 30 minutes they were becoming more intense.
9AM - Dr Theis came in to see what was going on, which were her words when she came in "What's going on here?" As every other visit she made had been uneventful and I was doing just fine. She reported on yesterday's ultrasound and said everything looked great, but now I was definitely contracting and they were going to do what they could to slow and eventually stop them. So she order a shot of Terbutaline followed in two hours by a oral medication called Procardia. After about 5 minutes the nurse came back in with the shot and injected into my right hip. It took about 10 minutes for it to kick in and relax the contractions. So now it was just wait and see...
9:45AM I wasn't going to call Kevin because I really thought anything was going to happen and that the medication was going to do the trick. Quickly I realized that I needed his comforting words as I was getting more and more anxious and scared about the situation. I called the school and had them call him down to the office to tell him what was happening. I didn't think he needed to come. After about 5 minutes of me letting him know the assistant principal sent him on his way as they had found a sub and he needed to be with me. I had a sense of relief come over me and was hopeful for his arrival. Next I called my mom at work. They called her down to the office and I let her know what was going on as well. I told her that I thought things were going slow down and we decided we'd be in touch. So Kevin was on his way and I felt better having talk to him and my mom.
10:50AM And there back. the contractions were slowly coming back and this time with a new intensity! So I called my nurse down letting her know that they were back and also seemed to be speeding up. I tried to make it, but it was getting quite uncomfortable to say the least! She got down to the room and it seemed as if the contractions were nearing 3 minutes apart. She had me Preoardia which was supposed to also relax smooth muscle - uterus and hopefully shut labor activity down. As soon as she gave me the pill I began having a contraction and sat up to try and take the pill. As I was sitting up I began to feel nauseous and then new I was going to be sick. The nurse was scurrying to find something for me and just grabbed the trash can next to the bed. And there was breakfast a second time. ;) I never got the pill down. At this time they called Dr back down and she ran through a list of things she wanted them to do. 1. Another shot of Terbutaline, 2. Pain meds, 3. Get me on an IV, 4. get me upstairs to Labor and Delivery so that she could perform an exam. WHAT?? Labor and delivery, looks like we're having a baby!!
So as the nurses are performing all their task, it was pretty amazing how several nurses came in and were all working to get things done. Tracey, the student nurse and another student nurse began packing up my belongings, which basically had become a small apartment of stuff!! I told them to call for a UHaul!
11:40AM I made it upstairs and the second shot was kicking in. As we entered so did Kevin. WHEW!! What a relief he made it and I felt like I could breathe again. They got me into a gown and switched me into a labor bed and OH MAN this is really happening. Shortly after Dr Theis came in and checked me and I was dilated to a 7, ALREADY! So she said we are having a baby either today or tomorrow. And here we thought we were going another 2 weeks! I guess baby has other plans. She outlined our approach and decided that we weren't going to do anything more to try and stop labor, we're going to ride it out!
Noon And they are back gain. My contractions started up again and I don't think that there is anything we can do now! The nurse thinks that Dr checking me probably instigated them. after about the third one I started feeling pressure with the next one. At this time, Liz - my labor nurse, decided she better check me. 9! What I had dilated 2cm in a matter of 10-15 minutes. Wow this little one wants out! And the army was mobilized!
With in minutes Liz was getting Dr back in the room and another nurse Tammy came in to help get me and the room ready! Then the NICU team was in and set and here we go. As the contractions were coming they started having me push. Push.... What I don't know what I'm doing. Fortunately I had the best nursing staff coaching me through. after about 5-6 pushes or so Dr checked our time and my dilation and said we 've got enough time for an epidural do you want one? UH YEA!! So the called the anestesiologist up and within minutes he was in and they sent the NICU team out. The Dr thought we had 30-45 minutes before baby was coming. So I signed the consent and he began preppring. They sat me up and moved me to the edge of the bed. Liz held me as I curled over the baby and let the anestesiologist do his thing. He got the local in and was starting the epidural. He said if you start having a contraction let me know and I'll pull back. A couple of minutes later here was a contraction and it had some fury. I let him know and out came the epidural. I looked to Liz and said I think I need to push, then to Dr Theis "I have to push!" "Can I lay down, is the needle out?" So they laid me back down, scooted me to the end, got me all "set-up" and it was definitely go time. My pushing was not very good and between contractions Liz and Tammy and Dr all coached me up on what to do. So as the next one came I was better but not good enough. They gave me a few more pointers and the next one I nailed it! I felt some pressure, deep breath, push, hold, count to 10, baby is coming! Deep breath, push hold count to 10, one more and it's out. Deep breath, hold, push count to ten, and HE'S HERE! "You have a beautiful baby boy!" Dr Theis. He came out screaming, which is the best sound new parents can hear! Kevin cut the cord and in my arms they placed him!!! THERE IS NO FEELING LIKE THAT!!
Then we handed him over to the NICU team and they began their work. He was breathing, but shallow so the put a tube down his throat to help him take some deeper breaths! He looked pretty good. After they had done everything they needed to they wrapped him up and put him back into my arms and let Kevin and I check him out and tell him how lucky we are and how loved he was! After a couple minutes we handed him back off so they could get him downstairs to the NICU and weigh him and measure him and get the process started. Kevin went with them and I could breath again as our little boy Oliver Wayne Powell was doing well and I was ok.
The nurses were absolutely amazing and I am so thankful for being where we are. To Dr Theis who did so wonderfully as things moved so quickly! To the NICU team who is working their magic with our little man now. He is doing great and we will keep everyone posted with his progress. Looks like I'm being discharged tomorrow and he will probably be here another 4-5 weeks, we'll just see how he does. Right now he is amazing and SOOO cute!
Please keep us all in your thoughts in prayers as we do have a long road ahead of us. The good thing is he comes from a long line of fighters - he's got many angels above watching over him who were all fighters in their time on earth. He's also had a very good start in the NICU and we hope and pray that this continues. We know there will be tough days ahead and it's going to be hard not taking him with us, but we know he is in great, knowledgeable hands!!
To be Continued.....
Monday, September 12, 2011
Well the ultrasound went really well today. It was late this afternoon which was okay as BP was pretty darn active. I was able to see all kinds of movement, baby was rolling, moving arms and legs, so amazing. We saw 33 seconds of diaphragm movement so I think BP scored well again, maybe another 8/8 on the biophysical. The med student actually performed most of the exam with the tech instructing and helping. No 3D pictures this week, hopefully we'll have some next Monday. No measurements either, only every 4 weeks, so either next week or the week after... Heart rate was 149. The most relieving part of the whole thing was that the fluid was normal and actually up again from last we, 16cm so that is awesome news!! I'm excited to hear what Dr has to say tomorrow.
Today Rachel was my nurse and she was actually one of the first ones to come in when we first arrived 16 days ago. She came in that day to offer Kevin and I some comfort and reassurance. So I was excited to see her again today. I don't keep them very busy as I have just about everything I need. Today I did get kinda bored in my room, mostly because I was waiting for them to come get me for the ultrasound. I am half way through my new book and am excited to finish and start another one!!
I had a couple of visitors earlier this evening, Amanda and her mom stopped by to say hello and had a gift bag full of things to keep me busy - pedicure set and french manicure pen, colored pencils and a sketch book, puzzles book, gum, fruit snacks, chapStick and some other things that I am forgetting. She was in town for her weekly check-up, she's 35 weeks along, so our baby's could be born close together. Such a nice visit!! Thanks for the gifts and thank you so much for thinking of us and stopping by.
Kevin has started a project in the nursery, I didn't know he was such an artist. It's so cute of him to be doing what he is! I can't wait to see how it turns out. I'm not sure what he has in mind but I'm sure it'll turn out great!!
Only 16 more days to 34 weeks and Dr said when we make it there she may send me home to bed rest there. I don't think she will let me go back to work, we'll just have to see I guess. But that was awfully exciting news!! Baby is still doing well on Non-stress test twice a day and not contraction - I'll keep praying for good results as often as I close my eyes, and being in bed all day that is quite a bit. :)
Forever and ever I'll say a little prayer for you BP!!
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I had a couple of visitors earlier this evening, Amanda and her mom stopped by to say hello and had a gift bag full of things to keep me busy - pedicure set and french manicure pen, colored pencils and a sketch book, puzzles book, gum, fruit snacks, chapStick and some other things that I am forgetting. She was in town for her weekly check-up, she's 35 weeks along, so our baby's could be born close together. Such a nice visit!! Thanks for the gifts and thank you so much for thinking of us and stopping by.
Kevin has started a project in the nursery, I didn't know he was such an artist. It's so cute of him to be doing what he is! I can't wait to see how it turns out. I'm not sure what he has in mind but I'm sure it'll turn out great!!
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Kevin's artwork!! Maybe Our Family Tree |
Only 16 more days to 34 weeks and Dr said when we make it there she may send me home to bed rest there. I don't think she will let me go back to work, we'll just have to see I guess. But that was awfully exciting news!! Baby is still doing well on Non-stress test twice a day and not contraction - I'll keep praying for good results as often as I close my eyes, and being in bed all day that is quite a bit. :)
Forever and ever I'll say a little prayer for you BP!!
Sunday, September 11, 2011
A Day to Remember 9/11/01 - Day 15
I almost didn't get my post in tonight!! Wouldn't want to let any of my fans down! Its been a pretty good Sunday! It's hard to believe 10 years ago I was sitting and watching the world change before my eyes. On this day 10 years ago it started with a strange email from my mom telling me they were fine and not try come home. I didn't know why at the time and went on to my coaching class. When I got there teacher came in and said in light of what has happened this morning I am going to cancel class, or something like that. I still didn't know what was going on. I rushed home to turn on the television find out. I couldn't believe what I was seeing and still can't today. My roommates Perkins and Annie and I were glued to the television all day. I had another class at 10 and it hadn't been cancelled yet so I thought "too early in the semester to be skipping" so off I went. That professor kept us the whole time and never mentioned the attacks at all - we found out on Thursday that he hadn't heard and was sorry he kept us. As soon as that class got out I again rushed home to my roomies! They were still watching the television as the world was still attempting to comprehend what had transpired and why and who.... Later that afternoon we headed to basketball practice and Sloop sent us all home. Looking back now I still have trouble grasping the magnitude of what we witnessed on television that day and how it has forever changed the world we live in.
So today when we turned the TV on and were flipping through the channels we began by watching the ceremony at ground zero. So hard to believe so many lives were lost that day. After they got through the C last names and went to commercial I began flipping the channels and that is when I came across msnbc and the were rebroadcasting Katie Couric, tom Brokaw, and Matt Lauer broadcasting the events on that day. It was surreal when it happened and it was eerie to see it again... My heart goes out to all the families who lost someone that day and I can't imagine the pain and emptiness those events left in their lives. Bless those that responded and helped rescue and save others lives sacrificing their own. And those who survived it all. Real American Heroes!
In the world of baby today no changes. There is something so comforting about hearing that little heartbeat everyday and starting the morning off with it! Still no contractions and the baby looks great on the monitor. Still moving around in there quite a bit, which is reassuring as well. Tomorrow we have an ultrasound so I will probably be uploading some new photos. Kind of hoping for some measurements - length and weight- but now sure if they will do them. I pray that my fluid level is still normal and in a safe range. I wish Kevin could be there with us and I know it kills him not to be. I hope he can come for a visit Wednesday night after school. We'll just see. He'll be back next weekend and then the weekend after that he has drill so I hope my mom can come then. Speaking of Kevin, he completed one of the greatest husband tasks today. I was running out of pads (for the leaking, since I have had a premature rupture of membranes they are needed) and he went to walmart and purchased new ones for me. I didn't get him texted in time with what I wanted, but what he got is doing the trick! I know you were all dying to hear about that, but I thought he needed his props for Husband of the Year!! One of my best friends may be coming in a week and staying for a few days for a visit. That would be awesome and very refreshing!!c=
It has been a good sports day for me, at least thus far. The Bears won, convincingly which surprised me. The downside, I had to watch the Rams game. Yuck! Next week though I think the Bears game will be on here. The Cubs are beating the Mets right now, hopefully they can hold on! Heard on ESPN that the Cardinals are closing in on the Braves for the NL wild card, hopefully when they meet the Cubs for the last series of the season we can spoil their playoff hopes, since we haven't had any since opening day. There is always next year!! Thank god for sports, I wish there were some daytime games on during the week. On another note, I finished the Prince of Tides so when mom comes we can now watch the movie, if anyone has it let me know!! I began reading the one the Poker Club sent At the Corner of Bitter and Sweet I think is what it is called. I just started reading it, didn't read the flap for a preview or anything. So far it is an easy read and I may finish it in record time!
So what I thought was going to be a short and sweet entry has really taken off!! I'm pooped, no nap yesterday or today so I'm gonna turn the lights out on this entry! Look forward to sharing good news and pictures tomorrow!!
Stay Tuned...
So today when we turned the TV on and were flipping through the channels we began by watching the ceremony at ground zero. So hard to believe so many lives were lost that day. After they got through the C last names and went to commercial I began flipping the channels and that is when I came across msnbc and the were rebroadcasting Katie Couric, tom Brokaw, and Matt Lauer broadcasting the events on that day. It was surreal when it happened and it was eerie to see it again... My heart goes out to all the families who lost someone that day and I can't imagine the pain and emptiness those events left in their lives. Bless those that responded and helped rescue and save others lives sacrificing their own. And those who survived it all. Real American Heroes!
In the world of baby today no changes. There is something so comforting about hearing that little heartbeat everyday and starting the morning off with it! Still no contractions and the baby looks great on the monitor. Still moving around in there quite a bit, which is reassuring as well. Tomorrow we have an ultrasound so I will probably be uploading some new photos. Kind of hoping for some measurements - length and weight- but now sure if they will do them. I pray that my fluid level is still normal and in a safe range. I wish Kevin could be there with us and I know it kills him not to be. I hope he can come for a visit Wednesday night after school. We'll just see. He'll be back next weekend and then the weekend after that he has drill so I hope my mom can come then. Speaking of Kevin, he completed one of the greatest husband tasks today. I was running out of pads (for the leaking, since I have had a premature rupture of membranes they are needed) and he went to walmart and purchased new ones for me. I didn't get him texted in time with what I wanted, but what he got is doing the trick! I know you were all dying to hear about that, but I thought he needed his props for Husband of the Year!! One of my best friends may be coming in a week and staying for a few days for a visit. That would be awesome and very refreshing!!c=
It has been a good sports day for me, at least thus far. The Bears won, convincingly which surprised me. The downside, I had to watch the Rams game. Yuck! Next week though I think the Bears game will be on here. The Cubs are beating the Mets right now, hopefully they can hold on! Heard on ESPN that the Cardinals are closing in on the Braves for the NL wild card, hopefully when they meet the Cubs for the last series of the season we can spoil their playoff hopes, since we haven't had any since opening day. There is always next year!! Thank god for sports, I wish there were some daytime games on during the week. On another note, I finished the Prince of Tides so when mom comes we can now watch the movie, if anyone has it let me know!! I began reading the one the Poker Club sent At the Corner of Bitter and Sweet I think is what it is called. I just started reading it, didn't read the flap for a preview or anything. So far it is an easy read and I may finish it in record time!
So what I thought was going to be a short and sweet entry has really taken off!! I'm pooped, no nap yesterday or today so I'm gonna turn the lights out on this entry! Look forward to sharing good news and pictures tomorrow!!
Stay Tuned...
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Incubation - Day 14
I don;t really know where to start tonight... I need a key word or focal point.... I guess football would be it. I'm very excited that football season is upon us, for a number of reason but probably mostly because it gives me something to watch 4 of 7 nights out of the week. The Illini won big today, of course they weren't playing anyone so they should have won big. We watched the Iowa v. Iowa state game this afternoon, well I did. Kevin was exhausted from the four day work week - I don't know how he going to make it this week having to go all five days. :) What a game!! Being an Illini fan I didn't care who won so that made it all the more exciting to watch, 3 OT's!! Then we watched the Penn State v. Alabama game, which was not really a contest. Now Notre Dame v. Michigan is on in the first night game at The Big House. I just hope it is an exciting game! The uniforms are awful, why do schools mess with something that works... I guess it's a throwback game maybe because the refs are in throwback attire.... I don't know, but its a mistake. Someone should have asked me first! :)
Another good report from the doctor today, everything still looking good on the printouts from the monitor and my condition is staying steady also! The baby was very active this afternoon moving around, a very good sign!! following the doctor's orders is definitely doing the trick, so we'll continue to stay the course!!
I read most of the afternoon, trying to finish that darn book - about 60 pages to go! I'm going to try to finish it tonight! Before dinner arrived I decided to shower, since it had been since Wednesday I felt pretty greazy. ;) It felt nice to sit in the warm water and clean up. Again the little things... I'm looking forward to Monday's ultrasound to see the little one again! It's so neat and such a miracle! I am so excited to be a mom! I hope I'm a good one!
We had a couple of visitors Kendyl and her mom Lynne stopped by for a bit. It was nice to see them and hear how things are going in KV, sounds like you all are holding it down. It's sorta hard to believe how many people care about us and are thinking of us and praying for us, we are blessed beyond belief! We love all of you as well and are very grateful.
It's so nice to have time with Kevin, even though we are confined to this room. I know he is so excited about fatherhood and concerned about the baby and me, I wish he could be with us all week and I know he does too. Just him being here brings a sense of relief, comfort, and happiness to me - he loves us so much!! We are very lucky! I I love him very much and I know our little one does too! I am very much looking forward to seeing Kevin with Baby Powell and taking care of the little one!! So much excitement!! Just a bit longer!!
Well I was going to upload a belly picture but I don't think I am ready for the world wide web to have that kind of access to me! So no new pictures today, maybe tomorrow :)
It's been a pretty lazy Saturday and so there is not much updating, but I'm dedicated to doing this EVERYDAY so I hope not to bore you too often!
To all a good night
Another good report from the doctor today, everything still looking good on the printouts from the monitor and my condition is staying steady also! The baby was very active this afternoon moving around, a very good sign!! following the doctor's orders is definitely doing the trick, so we'll continue to stay the course!!
I read most of the afternoon, trying to finish that darn book - about 60 pages to go! I'm going to try to finish it tonight! Before dinner arrived I decided to shower, since it had been since Wednesday I felt pretty greazy. ;) It felt nice to sit in the warm water and clean up. Again the little things... I'm looking forward to Monday's ultrasound to see the little one again! It's so neat and such a miracle! I am so excited to be a mom! I hope I'm a good one!
We had a couple of visitors Kendyl and her mom Lynne stopped by for a bit. It was nice to see them and hear how things are going in KV, sounds like you all are holding it down. It's sorta hard to believe how many people care about us and are thinking of us and praying for us, we are blessed beyond belief! We love all of you as well and are very grateful.
It's so nice to have time with Kevin, even though we are confined to this room. I know he is so excited about fatherhood and concerned about the baby and me, I wish he could be with us all week and I know he does too. Just him being here brings a sense of relief, comfort, and happiness to me - he loves us so much!! We are very lucky! I I love him very much and I know our little one does too! I am very much looking forward to seeing Kevin with Baby Powell and taking care of the little one!! So much excitement!! Just a bit longer!!
Well I was going to upload a belly picture but I don't think I am ready for the world wide web to have that kind of access to me! So no new pictures today, maybe tomorrow :)
It's been a pretty lazy Saturday and so there is not much updating, but I'm dedicated to doing this EVERYDAY so I hope not to bore you too often!
To all a good night
Friday, September 9, 2011
It's Friday, Friday, Friday - Day 13
So I've waited until the end of the day today to reflect and I know all of you have been devotedly checking every hour on the hour for an update for today!! Okay so I may be exaggerating BUT!! Any who, its been a nice little Friday in my cocoon of an office/desk/bed. I took two naps today and am refreshed for Kevin's arrival tonight!! I know he is too as we haven't seen each other since Monday. For some of you that may not seem like a long time apart, but for a couple who sees each other daily, at work in addition to at home its a long time, let me tell you!
Today twins went home. I felt for those parents, I can't imagine taking two babies home!! I have no idea how those parents do it, but I guess parenting is like that, you don't know how you make it through at times!! LOVE!
I had two wonderful visitors this afternoon, Kim and Aunt Jane! Kim brought a gift from another friend and another from the ladies of the Country Club. Ladies both were very thoughtful!! Thank you! It was so nice to have smiling faces and someone to talk to besides Facebook. I'll tell you there aren't many people on during the day updating statuses and info so it gets old fast. Real conversation is a welcome change of pace. Aunt Jane brought me several books to occupy time with as well as some comedy movies from Roxanne. Also, daytime television is not the greatest so the movies will help and give Kevin and I something to watch this weekend - that is if none of the football games are worth watching. Speaking of football I hope the KV Tigers can get their first win of the season tonight!! I also hope that the Bears game is on here but I doubt it, probably the Rams - sorry but BOO!
One of my favorite day nurses was back to take care of me today. Kendra was actually on call today and took care of me until 3pm. It was nice to have a familiar face taking care of me. She had been on nursery duty the past couple days she had worked so that is why I hadn't seen her. She was happy to see me and we had some nice little chats throughout the day. I hope she is back again real soon!
I've also picked my August read back up to try and finish - The Prince of Tides, very good and when I finish and mom comes for her next visit we are going to rent the movie. She promises me it does the book justice, something I am very skeptical of when they try to make a book a movie. So we'll see. I think when I finish reading it I will try Jodi Piccoult's Nineteen Minutes. We'll see.
Oh yea a medical update might be in order huh! The Dr came in this morning and was her cheery, happy self - refreshing and encouraging! Again the goal is 34 weeks, which is about 19 days from today. When we reach that point if fluid levels of good we wont deliver and try to get to 37 weeks, if we get there we will probably induce. If after 34 weeks I start laboring they won't stop it as the risks would outweigh the rewards. Her gut is that we are on the right track and are going to hit 34 weeks. She also said if her gut feeling changes she will let me know. I am glad she is being upfront and honest with us, her good news makes it a lot easier to just sit here. I had a few questions and she was quick with good detailed answers that also relaxed me. She did say that there may be a chance past 34 weeks to go home until baby decides to come.... Going home might be kind of nice, but there is definitely something very reassuring about being here already - though we know Kevin won't have any trouble getting us here!! I love you deer!
Baby is still doing wonderful, moving plenty and heart beat is still great. I'm still not feeling any contractions and really pushing the fluids so that my amniotic levels stay normal.
I had several visitors through the day yesterday. My Friend Kelli and her husband Derek were here for lunch, she brought Panera and it was heavenly!! Thanks Kel. I hope they stop by with their little ones this weekend, I can't wait to meet their little girl. We talked about parenting, sleep or lack of, coaching, jobs, LIFE!! It was a very nice visit and I wish we were closer to see them more often. Then last night Travis and his mom Jasmin stopped by. It was a nice interruption to the monotony of the evening. They even brought cookies and milk, which I think contributed to a wonderful nights sleep. She also brought me a parenting book, something we will for sure be reading. It was nice to visit with both of them and have some more encouraging words and thoughts! Thanks for coming by it sure was thoughtful!!
I also received a package in the mail from my Aunt Kim. Two great books to add to the rotation - Pregnancy meditations and chicken soup for the pregnant mom's soul. These will sure help keep me positive through my stay!! I also don't know if I mentioned the package I received the day before from the Poker Club... It was a true care package and full of great things - books, treats, playing cards. Very thoughtful ladies (I'm sure it wasn't the guys idea :)) thank you! I've also received more cards and e-cards and they have been full of sweet words and love. Thank you so much for thinking of us during this time! The power of prayer is truly amazing!
I'm so glad that football season has started. Though last nights game wasn't terribly exciting it sure bring options to nightly television. Also our fall shows start next week and I wont miss a one :) I can't wait for Parenthood to start and the new one Up All Night. Something new.
Well I think I could go on and on but Kevin will be here soon and I'm really anxious to see him.
Enjoy the Friday night lights and catch you all on the flip side!!
Today twins went home. I felt for those parents, I can't imagine taking two babies home!! I have no idea how those parents do it, but I guess parenting is like that, you don't know how you make it through at times!! LOVE!
I had two wonderful visitors this afternoon, Kim and Aunt Jane! Kim brought a gift from another friend and another from the ladies of the Country Club. Ladies both were very thoughtful!! Thank you! It was so nice to have smiling faces and someone to talk to besides Facebook. I'll tell you there aren't many people on during the day updating statuses and info so it gets old fast. Real conversation is a welcome change of pace. Aunt Jane brought me several books to occupy time with as well as some comedy movies from Roxanne. Also, daytime television is not the greatest so the movies will help and give Kevin and I something to watch this weekend - that is if none of the football games are worth watching. Speaking of football I hope the KV Tigers can get their first win of the season tonight!! I also hope that the Bears game is on here but I doubt it, probably the Rams - sorry but BOO!
One of my favorite day nurses was back to take care of me today. Kendra was actually on call today and took care of me until 3pm. It was nice to have a familiar face taking care of me. She had been on nursery duty the past couple days she had worked so that is why I hadn't seen her. She was happy to see me and we had some nice little chats throughout the day. I hope she is back again real soon!
I've also picked my August read back up to try and finish - The Prince of Tides, very good and when I finish and mom comes for her next visit we are going to rent the movie. She promises me it does the book justice, something I am very skeptical of when they try to make a book a movie. So we'll see. I think when I finish reading it I will try Jodi Piccoult's Nineteen Minutes. We'll see.
Oh yea a medical update might be in order huh! The Dr came in this morning and was her cheery, happy self - refreshing and encouraging! Again the goal is 34 weeks, which is about 19 days from today. When we reach that point if fluid levels of good we wont deliver and try to get to 37 weeks, if we get there we will probably induce. If after 34 weeks I start laboring they won't stop it as the risks would outweigh the rewards. Her gut is that we are on the right track and are going to hit 34 weeks. She also said if her gut feeling changes she will let me know. I am glad she is being upfront and honest with us, her good news makes it a lot easier to just sit here. I had a few questions and she was quick with good detailed answers that also relaxed me. She did say that there may be a chance past 34 weeks to go home until baby decides to come.... Going home might be kind of nice, but there is definitely something very reassuring about being here already - though we know Kevin won't have any trouble getting us here!! I love you deer!
Baby is still doing wonderful, moving plenty and heart beat is still great. I'm still not feeling any contractions and really pushing the fluids so that my amniotic levels stay normal.
I had several visitors through the day yesterday. My Friend Kelli and her husband Derek were here for lunch, she brought Panera and it was heavenly!! Thanks Kel. I hope they stop by with their little ones this weekend, I can't wait to meet their little girl. We talked about parenting, sleep or lack of, coaching, jobs, LIFE!! It was a very nice visit and I wish we were closer to see them more often. Then last night Travis and his mom Jasmin stopped by. It was a nice interruption to the monotony of the evening. They even brought cookies and milk, which I think contributed to a wonderful nights sleep. She also brought me a parenting book, something we will for sure be reading. It was nice to visit with both of them and have some more encouraging words and thoughts! Thanks for coming by it sure was thoughtful!!
I also received a package in the mail from my Aunt Kim. Two great books to add to the rotation - Pregnancy meditations and chicken soup for the pregnant mom's soul. These will sure help keep me positive through my stay!! I also don't know if I mentioned the package I received the day before from the Poker Club... It was a true care package and full of great things - books, treats, playing cards. Very thoughtful ladies (I'm sure it wasn't the guys idea :)) thank you! I've also received more cards and e-cards and they have been full of sweet words and love. Thank you so much for thinking of us during this time! The power of prayer is truly amazing!
I'm so glad that football season has started. Though last nights game wasn't terribly exciting it sure bring options to nightly television. Also our fall shows start next week and I wont miss a one :) I can't wait for Parenthood to start and the new one Up All Night. Something new.
Well I think I could go on and on but Kevin will be here soon and I'm really anxious to see him.
Enjoy the Friday night lights and catch you all on the flip side!!
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Room with a view the Real Deal
The view from my bed of the parking lot - just like the sunsets on Lake Michigan :) |
This is where new dads park and fuss with car seats so they can take their family home! |
Garden view right out my window |
My NEST |
My second best friends - gifts from friends and family and the TV |
Table surrounded by love, lots of goodies from caring people!! |
A room with a view - Day 2 of blogging and Day 12 of bed rest
It's a new dawn, it's a new day!! It looks gorgeous outside from my room window! I actually have a great view from my bad. My room looks out to the birthing center parking lot. this is where parents park to come pick up new mom and baby. It's exciting to see them going home and the light at the end of the tunnel for me!! Also, there is a nice garden right outside my window that I can look at too. I think my mom may have had some different flower choices, but for us green thumb beginners it looks great!!
I do not have a roommate and I hope not to. It is nice when people visit or Kevin comes for the weekend to not have to share the space. Honestly I don't know where someone would stay in here if they did move them, I have so much stuff. Cards, balloons, books, magazines, pictures, and just plain STUFF! The comforts of home I would say!
My day begins about 2AM with a trip to the bathroom and the nurse coming in to check my vitals. SO far so good. Temps been consistent at 98.something and blood pressure fluctuates depending on time of day and what I have been doing.
Then at 6 the night nurse makes her last stop in with my heartburn med and hooks me up to baby heart rate monitor and contraction monitor. I was up before they got here so I decided to pick up The Prince of Tides and pick up where my summer reading left off. She came in at about 6:15 and hooked me up, so to speak. They do this for about 30 minutes to make sure all is well in Baby Powell's little home. We are generally around 140's and no contractions still. YEA!!!
I continued to read until breakfast came, about 7:15 the food service brought breakfast, today it was scrambled eggs, O'Brien potatoes, Bacon, orange juice, and a biscuit. All very good, I cleaned my plate. Oh and the ever important milk!! Calcium to strengthen baby's bones. I watched Saved by the Bell with breakfast and thoroughly enjoyed catching up on the junior years with Miss Bliss, however the high school cast is WAY better!!
I was pretty tired yet so I decided to nap. I recently downloaded some Michael Buble so turned him on and out like a light I was!! Two hours later I'm up and updating the world on my life as a Boone Hospital resident. They should be down shortly with morning meds and the day nurse will greet me with a smile and how barrage of questions-they are great at what they do! I will take my daily vitamins - 3 fish oil, 1 ferrous sulfate, 1 prenatal vitamin, 1 vitamin D, 1 heartburn med (this one I get twice a day), and one antibiotic to keep away or fight off any infections. So two glasses of water later BP has its daily doses for brain development, strong bones, strong heart and lungs, and just becoming that all star we all know it already is!
I have had nothing but absolutely wonderful nurses furing the last 12 days I've been here! I feel bad because I don't remember all their names, but a couple who I've had consistently or remember are Anne - she is awesome, she's on days and really takes great care of me, Jen- night, Molly - night, I think I had an Ashley, before they moved me down to floor 2 Kirsten was my day nurse on 3 and was GREAT! I hope she stops by sometime to say hi!! All of the staff is great too, food service, housekeeping, the volunteers who deliver cards, flowers, baloons. Everyone is just so nice!! It's refreshing to see, there is hope!
I've got a visitor coming at lunch today and am excited to have the familiar company. Kelli is also being so kind as to bring me lunch of my choosing, and since you can't get it in Kirksville I've opted for Panera Bread. I'm looking forward to the meal, but more so visiting with Kel and learning more about how her little family is growing and doing! What a great friend!
Past that I don't know what else is on the docket for today, maybe just lying low and resting for Kevin's weekend visit. He will be down tomorrow evening after JH football practice gets out. I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE HIM!!
Check back later with more excitement from C-249!
I do not have a roommate and I hope not to. It is nice when people visit or Kevin comes for the weekend to not have to share the space. Honestly I don't know where someone would stay in here if they did move them, I have so much stuff. Cards, balloons, books, magazines, pictures, and just plain STUFF! The comforts of home I would say!
My day begins about 2AM with a trip to the bathroom and the nurse coming in to check my vitals. SO far so good. Temps been consistent at 98.something and blood pressure fluctuates depending on time of day and what I have been doing.
Then at 6 the night nurse makes her last stop in with my heartburn med and hooks me up to baby heart rate monitor and contraction monitor. I was up before they got here so I decided to pick up The Prince of Tides and pick up where my summer reading left off. She came in at about 6:15 and hooked me up, so to speak. They do this for about 30 minutes to make sure all is well in Baby Powell's little home. We are generally around 140's and no contractions still. YEA!!!
I continued to read until breakfast came, about 7:15 the food service brought breakfast, today it was scrambled eggs, O'Brien potatoes, Bacon, orange juice, and a biscuit. All very good, I cleaned my plate. Oh and the ever important milk!! Calcium to strengthen baby's bones. I watched Saved by the Bell with breakfast and thoroughly enjoyed catching up on the junior years with Miss Bliss, however the high school cast is WAY better!!
I was pretty tired yet so I decided to nap. I recently downloaded some Michael Buble so turned him on and out like a light I was!! Two hours later I'm up and updating the world on my life as a Boone Hospital resident. They should be down shortly with morning meds and the day nurse will greet me with a smile and how barrage of questions-they are great at what they do! I will take my daily vitamins - 3 fish oil, 1 ferrous sulfate, 1 prenatal vitamin, 1 vitamin D, 1 heartburn med (this one I get twice a day), and one antibiotic to keep away or fight off any infections. So two glasses of water later BP has its daily doses for brain development, strong bones, strong heart and lungs, and just becoming that all star we all know it already is!
I have had nothing but absolutely wonderful nurses furing the last 12 days I've been here! I feel bad because I don't remember all their names, but a couple who I've had consistently or remember are Anne - she is awesome, she's on days and really takes great care of me, Jen- night, Molly - night, I think I had an Ashley, before they moved me down to floor 2 Kirsten was my day nurse on 3 and was GREAT! I hope she stops by sometime to say hi!! All of the staff is great too, food service, housekeeping, the volunteers who deliver cards, flowers, baloons. Everyone is just so nice!! It's refreshing to see, there is hope!
I've got a visitor coming at lunch today and am excited to have the familiar company. Kelli is also being so kind as to bring me lunch of my choosing, and since you can't get it in Kirksville I've opted for Panera Bread. I'm looking forward to the meal, but more so visiting with Kel and learning more about how her little family is growing and doing! What a great friend!
Past that I don't know what else is on the docket for today, maybe just lying low and resting for Kevin's weekend visit. He will be down tomorrow evening after JH football practice gets out. I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE HIM!!
Check back later with more excitement from C-249!
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Baby Powell Pictures
Day one - Hospital bed rest and my attempting to blog
So here we go!! I was admitted to Boone Hospital Center on Sunday, August 28th, 2011 with premature rupture of membrane. In other words my water had broken. It didn't seem like this was possible, but the test was positive and so began our journey. We left Kirksville at about 10 am and arrived shortly after 11. Kevin made sure we got here fast, and to be honest it didn’t seem that he was driving that fast. We were supposed to go to church with his grandparents that morning, but Baby Powell had other plans.
After being led to my room the nurse hooked me up to the fetal monitor for baby's hear rate and then another monitor to track any contractions. They started an IV and begin giving me antibiotics, just in case of infection. The next thing was shot one of two of cortisone. This was to help speed up the maturation of baby's lungs; the second shot was the next day at the same time. After a couple hours the nurse came back and said that the monitor was picking up some contractions. YIKES!! I wasn't feeling anything so geez does that make you nervous... So then they started me on magnesium through the IV to stop the contractions. It just kept getting more and more scary!!
Kevin parents got t here shortly after we did and have been great throughout this adventure. My parents were en route and would be here at about 6 or 7pm. I was so anxious for them to get there as there is nothing more comforting than one’s own mom!!
My Dr. was not on call so we wouldn't see her until the next day sometime. This also made me uneasy, but the on call Dr. was reassuring in his assessment of our situation. We also had a neonatal Dr. come speak to us about what could possible transpire and how things would be handled. He made us feel a little more at ease, but we still weren't sure what was happening or going to happen.
Monday Suggest 29th, 2011 HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEVIN!!
So we made it through the night without any changes. Baby didn't come and contractions did not increase. Dr. came in and said they would be doing an ultrasound later that day to check baby and fluid levels. Basically sit tight!! Good news was the magnesium was working and contractions had stopped and fluid wasn't really leaking and no more spotting. They came later that afternoon and completed the ultrasound and the fluid level was normal, 12. Whew! That was a relief for sure. I was put on a liquid diet since they started the magnesium, boo!! I had some visitors come in Kelsey, Lauren, and Hannah and d they brought Hot Box Cookies. I unfortunately didn’t get to have one for a couple days due to the liquid diet. Then Roxanne came to visit as well. So refreshing and encouraging seeing happy kind faces!! THANKS
Tuesday, August 30th, 2011
Dr. was early in the morning to say that everything was looking great. Ultrasound looked very good and monitor strip readings were really good. Looks like baby is going to wait like it had been told and we may be here awhile. She also informed us that they would be keeping me until delivery - hospital bed rest. So good news on baby not so good news about having to stay here. Kevin headed back with his mom to Kirksville so that he could work the rest of the week, which was sad to let him go but necessary. Fortunately my mom could stay the rest of the week with me and take care of me!! I feel so lucky to have a mom like I do!! They moved me down from labor and delivery to the postpartum floor. This was a very long night! I was having some trouble taking deep breaths and being comfortable breathing. I had a chest pain right in the middle of my chest. We called the nurse down and she called the Dr.y to see what she wanted to do. She ordered and EKG and CT scan. The EKG was normal and about 4 hours later they took me for the CT scan. I'd never had one so I was quite nervous. They injected a dye into my IV so they could see if there were any clots in my lungs. This made me feel warm all over, strange feeling. Then when it was done I nearly immediately got sick to my stomach. Talk about exhaustion... They really couldn't do anything to make me comfortable that night. The next morning when the Dr. came in she said all the test results were normal, so that was good news - no clots! I told her that when I sat up or stood up the pain was gone. She concluded that it was heartburn and prescribed some medicine to help with that. Later that day I also got a GI cocktail, this eventually did the trick and took the pain away. It wasn't very tasty and took some time to kick in, but it was worth it. I got another cocktail the next afternoon and heartburn has been gone since, knock on wood!
Mom fed me and helped me out of bed and got me whatever I needed!! When she retires from teaching she has a def. future in nursing if she wants!! Great bedside manner. We watched movies, caught up on soap operas, and just enjoyed the time the two of us had together. She had had a pretty draining week the week before as her mother, my grandmother, Marie Redfearn, passed away the previous Friday. Talk about emotionally draining - I don't know how she was able to do it!! Super mom. I hope I am as good a mother to my baby as she has been to me for the past 29 years and counting!! I can't imagine life without her!! I love you mom!
On Friday evening Kevin and his folks came back down. It was nice to have him back!! His presence is just so comforting and he is going to be a great daddy!! He didn't exactly feed me like mom had; more just pulled the tray to my head and let me shovel it in... He can't help it! He did bring me my candy cane pillow which has been a lifesaver!
On Saturday I had several visitors, so nice!! Brittany, Taylor, and Ashley came with flowers and peaches. Which were delicious!! It was nice to see some smiling faces! Then later that evening Chelsea, Anna, Jacob, and Justin came by and visited - very uplifting as my parents had left about an hour before and it was very hard to see them leave. It was just a comfort to have them close. They'll be back soon! It literally was what the doctor had ordered to have some new visitors!! Thanks
Sunday I got to shower again! Boy did that feel good!! Other than that we spent the day relaxing and watching the CUBS!!! Monday Kevin's folks went back to Kirksville and Kevin eventually did too. This was probably the hardest day! We began the day with a wheelchair ride!! First time out of the room!! Kevin took us outside and we found a nice warm spot in the sun and out of the breeze. IT FELT SO GOOD, the fresh air and sunlight!! A lot of fear and uncertainty running through my head and not having my rock with me made it that much more scary. I know it wasn't easy for him to leave either. I hope this baby can sense how loved it is by its family, especially its parents!! I miss Kevin every day that he isn't here but I know I am being the best mom I can be by resting and following Dr.'s orders.
Each day has gotten just a little bit easier to be here, I think that it is mostly due to the continued great news the Dr. gives us. Yesterday we had another ultrasound and received some 3D pictures of BP. I got to go on a wheelchair ride to the ultrasound and every day out of this room is a huge gain! The little one aced its first test with an 8/8 on the biophysical exam. Not sure what all the criteria is, but way to go!!
Today the Dr. said our goals is 34 weeks, at that time they will do a couple of tests to see how baby is and if things are good then we will charge ahead and push toward 37 weeks. She thinks we are going to make it and that baby is doing great and going to stay put - as it is still grounded! :-) This makes laying in bed a lot easier to take as I know that is making BP stronger! I had another visitor today. Mary came and brought BP a tiger and me some magazines to read. It was nice to visit with her and very sweet of her to come down!!
I'd like to thank everyone who has sent an e-card; your kind thoughts and even humor have been enlightening. It is a little thing that goes a long way!! Also, thank you to those of you who have
After being led to my room the nurse hooked me up to the fetal monitor for baby's hear rate and then another monitor to track any contractions. They started an IV and begin giving me antibiotics, just in case of infection. The next thing was shot one of two of cortisone. This was to help speed up the maturation of baby's lungs; the second shot was the next day at the same time. After a couple hours the nurse came back and said that the monitor was picking up some contractions. YIKES!! I wasn't feeling anything so geez does that make you nervous... So then they started me on magnesium through the IV to stop the contractions. It just kept getting more and more scary!!
Kevin parents got t here shortly after we did and have been great throughout this adventure. My parents were en route and would be here at about 6 or 7pm. I was so anxious for them to get there as there is nothing more comforting than one’s own mom!!
My Dr. was not on call so we wouldn't see her until the next day sometime. This also made me uneasy, but the on call Dr. was reassuring in his assessment of our situation. We also had a neonatal Dr. come speak to us about what could possible transpire and how things would be handled. He made us feel a little more at ease, but we still weren't sure what was happening or going to happen.
Monday Suggest 29th, 2011 HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEVIN!!
So we made it through the night without any changes. Baby didn't come and contractions did not increase. Dr. came in and said they would be doing an ultrasound later that day to check baby and fluid levels. Basically sit tight!! Good news was the magnesium was working and contractions had stopped and fluid wasn't really leaking and no more spotting. They came later that afternoon and completed the ultrasound and the fluid level was normal, 12. Whew! That was a relief for sure. I was put on a liquid diet since they started the magnesium, boo!! I had some visitors come in Kelsey, Lauren, and Hannah and d they brought Hot Box Cookies. I unfortunately didn’t get to have one for a couple days due to the liquid diet. Then Roxanne came to visit as well. So refreshing and encouraging seeing happy kind faces!! THANKS
Tuesday, August 30th, 2011
Dr. was early in the morning to say that everything was looking great. Ultrasound looked very good and monitor strip readings were really good. Looks like baby is going to wait like it had been told and we may be here awhile. She also informed us that they would be keeping me until delivery - hospital bed rest. So good news on baby not so good news about having to stay here. Kevin headed back with his mom to Kirksville so that he could work the rest of the week, which was sad to let him go but necessary. Fortunately my mom could stay the rest of the week with me and take care of me!! I feel so lucky to have a mom like I do!! They moved me down from labor and delivery to the postpartum floor. This was a very long night! I was having some trouble taking deep breaths and being comfortable breathing. I had a chest pain right in the middle of my chest. We called the nurse down and she called the Dr.y to see what she wanted to do. She ordered and EKG and CT scan. The EKG was normal and about 4 hours later they took me for the CT scan. I'd never had one so I was quite nervous. They injected a dye into my IV so they could see if there were any clots in my lungs. This made me feel warm all over, strange feeling. Then when it was done I nearly immediately got sick to my stomach. Talk about exhaustion... They really couldn't do anything to make me comfortable that night. The next morning when the Dr. came in she said all the test results were normal, so that was good news - no clots! I told her that when I sat up or stood up the pain was gone. She concluded that it was heartburn and prescribed some medicine to help with that. Later that day I also got a GI cocktail, this eventually did the trick and took the pain away. It wasn't very tasty and took some time to kick in, but it was worth it. I got another cocktail the next afternoon and heartburn has been gone since, knock on wood!
Mom fed me and helped me out of bed and got me whatever I needed!! When she retires from teaching she has a def. future in nursing if she wants!! Great bedside manner. We watched movies, caught up on soap operas, and just enjoyed the time the two of us had together. She had had a pretty draining week the week before as her mother, my grandmother, Marie Redfearn, passed away the previous Friday. Talk about emotionally draining - I don't know how she was able to do it!! Super mom. I hope I am as good a mother to my baby as she has been to me for the past 29 years and counting!! I can't imagine life without her!! I love you mom!
On Friday evening Kevin and his folks came back down. It was nice to have him back!! His presence is just so comforting and he is going to be a great daddy!! He didn't exactly feed me like mom had; more just pulled the tray to my head and let me shovel it in... He can't help it! He did bring me my candy cane pillow which has been a lifesaver!
On Saturday I had several visitors, so nice!! Brittany, Taylor, and Ashley came with flowers and peaches. Which were delicious!! It was nice to see some smiling faces! Then later that evening Chelsea, Anna, Jacob, and Justin came by and visited - very uplifting as my parents had left about an hour before and it was very hard to see them leave. It was just a comfort to have them close. They'll be back soon! It literally was what the doctor had ordered to have some new visitors!! Thanks
Sunday I got to shower again! Boy did that feel good!! Other than that we spent the day relaxing and watching the CUBS!!! Monday Kevin's folks went back to Kirksville and Kevin eventually did too. This was probably the hardest day! We began the day with a wheelchair ride!! First time out of the room!! Kevin took us outside and we found a nice warm spot in the sun and out of the breeze. IT FELT SO GOOD, the fresh air and sunlight!! A lot of fear and uncertainty running through my head and not having my rock with me made it that much more scary. I know it wasn't easy for him to leave either. I hope this baby can sense how loved it is by its family, especially its parents!! I miss Kevin every day that he isn't here but I know I am being the best mom I can be by resting and following Dr.'s orders.
Each day has gotten just a little bit easier to be here, I think that it is mostly due to the continued great news the Dr. gives us. Yesterday we had another ultrasound and received some 3D pictures of BP. I got to go on a wheelchair ride to the ultrasound and every day out of this room is a huge gain! The little one aced its first test with an 8/8 on the biophysical exam. Not sure what all the criteria is, but way to go!!
Today the Dr. said our goals is 34 weeks, at that time they will do a couple of tests to see how baby is and if things are good then we will charge ahead and push toward 37 weeks. She thinks we are going to make it and that baby is doing great and going to stay put - as it is still grounded! :-) This makes laying in bed a lot easier to take as I know that is making BP stronger! I had another visitor today. Mary came and brought BP a tiger and me some magazines to read. It was nice to visit with her and very sweet of her to come down!!
I'd like to thank everyone who has sent an e-card; your kind thoughts and even humor have been enlightening. It is a little thing that goes a long way!! Also, thank you to those of you who have
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